Friendships & relationships

We are Full of LIFE

Sitting at office, talking to friends always give us some nice thoughts and new ways to look at our own life with some different perspectives. We always talk to each other about our relationships & Friendships and much more. Though this gives me a lot to write about.  There are some of those thoughts from one of my colleague.

Life is full of joy and sorrow, what makes it more joyful is a person who holds your hand in every condition and it's true saying that “life cannot be spend alone” there is always someone who’s there for you, whether it's your mom, dad, sister, friend, love.  It could be anyone.

A Conversation between JOY & SORROW

Joy: hi, I am in love buddy.

Sorrow: when and how????

Joy: I saw her in the park. She is so pretty.

Sorrow: Are you in love?

So, falling in love is too easy nowadays, people fall in love by just seeing someone for the first time, is it really love??? I doubt.  

Will this kind of relationship be fruitful?  

Second type of relationship

Joy: I love you.

Sorrow: really 😄

Joy: But there will be no commitment. It’s for sure we can't be together for lifetime, but we will be in relationship.

Sorrow: ok, few days are enough.

Joy: Means I will be yours till the time, I won't find anyone else.

Is it the way our parents love us, will they ever say – Look you are not beautiful or you haven’t made us proud, so sorry you are not my kid anymore.  

No, then what happen when it comes to romantic relationship?

Relationship is connection between two people, sharing bad and good times with each other.

Understand each other weakness and adapting it. Nobody is perfect ...relationship means two imperfect persons making a perfect relationship.

It's very easy to say I love you.... and easier to do break up .... What is difficult is to maintain.

It's like we bring a plant and care it for two three days then what will happen ... See the below image. 

                          (Murjagaya plant)

So, if you want that the plant to be green and grow healthy. You need to water it daily ... And care for it with love...

Love is the most powerful thing in the world.

Love drives a relationship like a fuel in a car ....

Many people nowadays think infatuation, liking, physical attraction is love.... Is it?

One should take time, understand each other.

It’s easy to fall for anyone, because people always put their best foot forward and hide the bad foot behind their back. It always be a case you judge people wrong initially.  

There are no such thing like a “perfect relationship”. It is nothing, just people who give time to their relationship and start knowing each other so well that relationship become so strong. It is the pure test of your patience’s.

Just simple things which can helps are knowing each other well, or maybe few common things between you, or how you fill gap of different mindsets. Think before you act.

"Durghanta se der bhali"

It becomes so important in a relationship to take time so that you can avoid a bad example and becomes other's gossip.

And even if something bad happens.  ALL is WELL

Motivation

We become what we consume?

If you have a chance to being around me, then you should have heard this sentence more often. I strongly believe that whatever we do, we always become what we consume on a daily basis. I am talking about your food, movies you watch and even people around you, the discussions you do.

Today most of our time has been spent on building social relations with others, but keeping an eye on whatever you heard from others are not always true. People will always tell you the truth you wanted to hear and not the actual truth. The only way you can find such people around you by keeping attention on their behaviour with others and the truth level their share while talking to others. There can be times when you think such people are good with you but speak shit about others, but think again because such people only knows how to shit about others,

So today or might be tomorrow it will be you.  

Take a time in a whole day and think does these shit talks will help you in anyway? Stop taking others garbage and invest that time on you to learn something which can help you in future.

Take an example of food; the more fast food you take in, the more weight you gain. Whereas eating healthy will make your life healthier and fit.  

How to deal with this:

Stop looking at those people who have negative outlook towards everything around.

Stop carrying others garbage in your mind.

People who teach you hatred cannot be a true friend.  

Be around people who motivates you to do better.