Friendships & relationships

We are Full of LIFE

Sitting at office, talking to friends always give us some nice thoughts and new ways to look at our own life with some different perspectives. We always talk to each other about our relationships & Friendships and much more. Though this gives me a lot to write about.  There are some of those thoughts from one of my colleague.

Life is full of joy and sorrow, what makes it more joyful is a person who holds your hand in every condition and it's true saying that “life cannot be spend alone” there is always someone who’s there for you, whether it's your mom, dad, sister, friend, love.  It could be anyone.

A Conversation between JOY & SORROW

Joy: hi, I am in love buddy.

Sorrow: when and how????

Joy: I saw her in the park. She is so pretty.

Sorrow: Are you in love?

So, falling in love is too easy nowadays, people fall in love by just seeing someone for the first time, is it really love??? I doubt.  

Will this kind of relationship be fruitful?  

Second type of relationship

Joy: I love you.

Sorrow: really 😄

Joy: But there will be no commitment. It’s for sure we can't be together for lifetime, but we will be in relationship.

Sorrow: ok, few days are enough.

Joy: Means I will be yours till the time, I won't find anyone else.

Is it the way our parents love us, will they ever say – Look you are not beautiful or you haven’t made us proud, so sorry you are not my kid anymore.  

No, then what happen when it comes to romantic relationship?

Relationship is connection between two people, sharing bad and good times with each other.

Understand each other weakness and adapting it. Nobody is perfect ...relationship means two imperfect persons making a perfect relationship.

It's very easy to say I love you.... and easier to do break up .... What is difficult is to maintain.

It's like we bring a plant and care it for two three days then what will happen ... See the below image. 

                          (Murjagaya plant)

So, if you want that the plant to be green and grow healthy. You need to water it daily ... And care for it with love...

Love is the most powerful thing in the world.

Love drives a relationship like a fuel in a car ....

Many people nowadays think infatuation, liking, physical attraction is love.... Is it?

One should take time, understand each other.

It’s easy to fall for anyone, because people always put their best foot forward and hide the bad foot behind their back. It always be a case you judge people wrong initially.  

There are no such thing like a “perfect relationship”. It is nothing, just people who give time to their relationship and start knowing each other so well that relationship become so strong. It is the pure test of your patience’s.

Just simple things which can helps are knowing each other well, or maybe few common things between you, or how you fill gap of different mindsets. Think before you act.

"Durghanta se der bhali"

It becomes so important in a relationship to take time so that you can avoid a bad example and becomes other's gossip.

And even if something bad happens.  ALL is WELL