Mind & Heart

How to Spot Fake People!!

My recent reading taught me how to spot fake people around you!! So let’s know how

We get toghter with a lot of people in our daily life and still unable to know who’s fake and who’s real. So how to spot those fake people so that you can make a good distance from them.

So try these:

Start ignoring words and pay attention to their Actions and Intentions. 

People’s actions scrams much louder than their words. People who says a bunch of stuff to you (love you, Miss you), but if you pay attention to their actions and see that’s real or not. I think in today’s world we all are trapped where we are falling for what we want to hear. So people start telling what we want to hear and what we are craving for, whatever that maybe. Even when it does not make sense but we may fall for it. And that’s we all have gone through once in our life time. And if that’s not happen to you yet, wait that will happen in future, maybe the guy you recently meet or a business relationship or your Boyfriend or girlfriend or something you seen on TV, a product which look so prominent and which tries to sell you the hope to make your life better ;) where you end up buying it because they are telling you what you want to hear. But the reality is if you pay attention to the actions then we don’t have to worry about the words, sweet talks and all that jazz.

So if you want to see who are those real people around you, pay attention to their actions and not just pay attention on how they treat you, watch them how they treat other people. Like some of your friend who treat you wonderful but treat other people so horribly. That’s the indication what kind of person they are. And especially when people treat people differently depending upon how they can help them. Like example people treat wealthy people wonderfully because they have a hope of getting something as a return gift from them.

So I always pay attention towards people’s actions because when you are at the top everyone wants to be around you but when you are at the bottom, you wanna know how many people will remain with you. That’s the people I wanted to be with. And you don’t have to take a lot time to understand who’s fake and who’s real because they themselves show you the little hints which proves they are faking it, and then it the matter of time you believe and stop ignoring the fakeness and response to that people that Hey I don’t like the way you are and don’t want be around you. Beh-Bye.

Please share your thoughts in comments!! I Love reading your comments.

Friendships & relationships

People Who Come In & Out of Our Lives!!

Ahh !! So recently I had a very interesting conversation with my dearest office friend about friendship. She got little emotional when me and our other friend shared that we are look for new job and will be soon leaving the organization. She cried and ask us not to leave because she is only friends with us.

But hey my dearest friend, understand friendship or relationship are more or less like seasons, eventually come and go. Is this a bad thing? Probably not. See we don’t know the reasons why someone comes to our life when at the end who has to go. Maybe because like the sayings “it’s the rule of universe” but I believe this is supposed to happen that way. They were meant to be in your life for that moment or time, not everybody is a complete book in your life, sometimes people are pages, sometime people are chapters and sometime they are just a sentence in your life, but without that one sentence is in your life the book will not be completed. If that one sentence in harry potter was missing then book will not be completed. So somebody come into your life may betray you, they may even broke your heart, even when you know that your crush is with someone else this valentine and you will sit back at home and watch YouTube instead. But that’s all part of the destiny.

So the point is when someone comes into your life they might teach you about yourself which you never knew before or love, or about life or maybe something else which will help you in future. So we can’t expect everyone to be with us throughout the life, because this is not going to happen. Like on seashore all the water which comes out of sea has to go back.  But you left with memories which you have created with each other and new lessons you have lean from them.

So who so ever did badly for me or betray me, I never had negative thought for those people because all those people I know from childhood made me learn so much about the life and helped me become who I am today. And also I am that person for others people life, who left others people life without ever noticing, the only difference is we have the reasons for why we did it, that’s why we validated to ourselves, so you have to look at people who left your life must have some reasons to leave your life too.