Friendships & relationships

People Who Come In & Out of Our Lives!!

Ahh !! So recently I had a very interesting conversation with my dearest office friend about friendship. She got little emotional when me and our other friend shared that we are look for new job and will be soon leaving the organization. She cried and ask us not to leave because she is only friends with us.

But hey my dearest friend, understand friendship or relationship are more or less like seasons, eventually come and go. Is this a bad thing? Probably not. See we don’t know the reasons why someone comes to our life when at the end who has to go. Maybe because like the sayings “it’s the rule of universe” but I believe this is supposed to happen that way. They were meant to be in your life for that moment or time, not everybody is a complete book in your life, sometimes people are pages, sometime people are chapters and sometime they are just a sentence in your life, but without that one sentence is in your life the book will not be completed. If that one sentence in harry potter was missing then book will not be completed. So somebody come into your life may betray you, they may even broke your heart, even when you know that your crush is with someone else this valentine and you will sit back at home and watch YouTube instead. But that’s all part of the destiny.

So the point is when someone comes into your life they might teach you about yourself which you never knew before or love, or about life or maybe something else which will help you in future. So we can’t expect everyone to be with us throughout the life, because this is not going to happen. Like on seashore all the water which comes out of sea has to go back.  But you left with memories which you have created with each other and new lessons you have lean from them.

So who so ever did badly for me or betray me, I never had negative thought for those people because all those people I know from childhood made me learn so much about the life and helped me become who I am today. And also I am that person for others people life, who left others people life without ever noticing, the only difference is we have the reasons for why we did it, that’s why we validated to ourselves, so you have to look at people who left your life must have some reasons to leave your life too.