Showing posts with label Friendships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friendships. Show all posts

Monday 24 April 2023

Daily blogging - A new challenge I have taken up.

Going into my deep thoughts, 
I feel this becomes more important now to keep writing and express yourself. Even when nobody is listening to you. One day these experiences and feelings can become really meaningful. The day you leave everything behind. Like the way my parents have did. 

They are gone now, and every since I wish I had some last conversation with them or any word of wisdom which might help me understand this life and prepare myself for the future.
So life becomes unpredictable and you never know when you might not have your loved ones with whom you want to spend your life. 

Now onwards I will keep sharing my thoughts and feelings through this blogs. 😓😓😓😓

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Tuesday 31 May 2016

Friendships & relationships

She Slept With Her Snake And Then The Vet Told Her Something Shocking!!


I have recently read wonderful story which i wanted to share with you all. Something amazing happens in the EnD. 


"This is a true story about a woman from India who lived in the Middle Ages and had a pet snake, python, which she loved so much. The snake was 4 meters long and looked healthy. However, one day her unusual pet just stopped eating.

This lack of appetite in the snake continued over a few weeks. The desperate woman tried everything she could and offered anything that a snake would like to strangle and eat. Nothing worked, and finally the woman took her loving pet to the veterinarian as a last resort.
The vet listened to the woman carefully and asked, “Does your snake sleep with you at night, wrap around you closely and spread out throughout its length?”

The woman was surprised and with a lot of hope she said, “Yes! Yes! It does it every day and it makes me so sad because I see something asking of me, and I cannot help it feel better.”

Then, the vet said something shocking and most unexpected. “Madam, your pet is not sick; it is just preparing to eat you.” Yes, the python wasn’t sick but it has been preparing to eat her instead!
“Every time, it is creeping and “hugging” you, wrapping around your body, it is checking size to weigh how a great meal you are and how it must be prepared before the attack. And yes, it does not eat, in order to have enough space to digest you more easily,” the vet said.

This story comes with a moral ie Even people close to you, whom you are very affectionate with, can, have mean intentions. You need to identify the snake around you and their true intent. Hugs and kisses are not always honest.

Don’t fear the enemy that attacks you, but the fake friend that hugs you."




Tuesday 16 February 2016

Friendships & relationships


People Who Come In & Out of Our Lives!!


Ahh !! So recently I had a very interesting conversation with my dearest office friend about friendship. She got little emotional when me and our other friend shared that we are look for new job and will be soon leaving the organization. She cried and ask us not to leave because she is only friends with us.

But hey my dearest friend, understand friendship or relationship are more or less like seasons, eventually come and go. Is this a bad thing? Probably not. See we don’t know the reasons why someone comes to our life when at the end who has to go. Maybe because like the sayings “it’s the rule of universe” but I believe this is supposed to happen that way. They were meant to be in your life for that moment or time, not everybody is a complete book in your life, sometimes people are pages, sometime people are chapters and sometime they are just a sentence in your life, but without that one sentence is in your life the book will not be completed. If that one sentence in harry potter was missing then book will not be completed. So somebody come into your life may betray you, they may even broke your heart, even when you know that your crush is with someone else this valentine and you will sit back at home and watch YouTube instead. But that’s all part of the destiny.

So the point is when someone comes into your life they might teach you about yourself which you never knew before or love, or about life or maybe something else which will help you in future. So we can’t expect everyone to be with us throughout the life, because this is not going to happen. Like on seashore all the water which comes out of sea has to go back.  But you left with memories which you have created with each other and new lessons you have lean from them.

So who so ever did badly for me or betray me, I never had negative thought for those people because all those people I know from childhood made me learn so much about the life and helped me become who I am today. And also I am that person for others people life, who left others people life without ever noticing, the only difference is we have the reasons for why we did it, that’s why we validated to ourselves, so you have to look at people who left your life must have some reasons to leave your life too.