Motivation

How do we encourage person in different fields like Students, friends, colleagues, higher authority persons and lower authority person ??

We find this problem in our life when we see people around are not motivated enough to do their own job right. We get frustrated with the attitude they have for not doing the work on time. But still we wanted to help them motivate to perform better in their job, studies or any other field which can help them to make a brighter future. But we failed to do so... you know why ??

Few people are okay with not so okay life, then you can't convince them, till the time they do not realize themselves from inside. And never waste your time on people who are not ready to listen. They will only learn immediately when they will be ready enough, but not until then.

Many find problems in they life about what they want to become and what should they do in their life. And let such anxiety remain in your head, because its a good thing. And it will always keeps you on your toes. And helps gain more and more experiences.

Only way to encourage people is to make them realize purpose of their life.
Everyone has the power to do wonders but never give time and energy to brush that powers and strength. Realizing the strength and power is not one day task. It may take more then yo think. But  never stop working on that day and night. This should be your primary goal.

Making them understand there are no shortcuts and thinking about shortcuts are just waste of time. Working hard can only take you through.

And engaging themselves to work on themselves everyday. Like wise you can't build muscles without daily workout, same you can not be an extraordinary in your field without daily working on it.

But the best way to encourage people is to inspire them. Be an example in front of them. Do the hard work yourself, never back down from any challenge of life, never give up. Like i encourage most of my workmates to start blogging but they have not started it yet, but i hope i am inspiring them enough that they will start really soon.

And Enjoy life and stay happy. And if that person is open, ready and receptive enough, they will see it and will learn from you.

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Friendships & relationships

With whom to open up with your feelings??

It’s a hard question but I have all the answers you need. We all comes across the time in our life thinking about this question. Should I share all my dirty deeds or something personal with others, whom you consider your friends, family or someone special? Are they trustworthy??

Should we speak out our heart in front of everyone? I would say no.

Open up with those people who respect you, who always cares about you and who’s your real friends. Sometimes people pretend to be your friend but they are not. If they laugh on your personal feeling, they are not your friends. And joke or disrespect your feelings, they are not the right person with whom you share your feelings with. So beware of your friends, it’s important because the people we are sharing our problems with may use it for they own advantages. And the people with you alley is like the food we take in. Like junk food can make you look fat, so as the bad company friends can results in L.

 Now it’s you choose you wanna have junk food friends or the balance food friends. To do this simply take a min and think are these people good for you. Do they inspire you to do great things or just fooling around?? I guess you know the answers!!!

There will be few YES and a lot of NO’s.  But for the people there is a YES, try put more of your time, energy and love and try to be great friends with them. And for those people who are a NO, try cut them out from your life or keep a distance. Doing this is important because the directions your life takes is nobody responsibility accepts your own.  So you should be with the right type of people who can help you achieve your life goals and help you reach where you want to go in life. So some friends will inspire you and other will drain you …. SO pick wisely and KEEP SMILING. 

Mind & Heart

How to Spot Fake People!!

My recent reading taught me how to spot fake people around you!! So let’s know how

We get toghter with a lot of people in our daily life and still unable to know who’s fake and who’s real. So how to spot those fake people so that you can make a good distance from them.

So try these:

Start ignoring words and pay attention to their Actions and Intentions. 

People’s actions scrams much louder than their words. People who says a bunch of stuff to you (love you, Miss you), but if you pay attention to their actions and see that’s real or not. I think in today’s world we all are trapped where we are falling for what we want to hear. So people start telling what we want to hear and what we are craving for, whatever that maybe. Even when it does not make sense but we may fall for it. And that’s we all have gone through once in our life time. And if that’s not happen to you yet, wait that will happen in future, maybe the guy you recently meet or a business relationship or your Boyfriend or girlfriend or something you seen on TV, a product which look so prominent and which tries to sell you the hope to make your life better ;) where you end up buying it because they are telling you what you want to hear. But the reality is if you pay attention to the actions then we don’t have to worry about the words, sweet talks and all that jazz.

So if you want to see who are those real people around you, pay attention to their actions and not just pay attention on how they treat you, watch them how they treat other people. Like some of your friend who treat you wonderful but treat other people so horribly. That’s the indication what kind of person they are. And especially when people treat people differently depending upon how they can help them. Like example people treat wealthy people wonderfully because they have a hope of getting something as a return gift from them.

So I always pay attention towards people’s actions because when you are at the top everyone wants to be around you but when you are at the bottom, you wanna know how many people will remain with you. That’s the people I wanted to be with. And you don’t have to take a lot time to understand who’s fake and who’s real because they themselves show you the little hints which proves they are faking it, and then it the matter of time you believe and stop ignoring the fakeness and response to that people that Hey I don’t like the way you are and don’t want be around you. Beh-Bye.

Please share your thoughts in comments!! I Love reading your comments.

Friendships & relationships

People Who Come In & Out of Our Lives!!

Ahh !! So recently I had a very interesting conversation with my dearest office friend about friendship. She got little emotional when me and our other friend shared that we are look for new job and will be soon leaving the organization. She cried and ask us not to leave because she is only friends with us.

But hey my dearest friend, understand friendship or relationship are more or less like seasons, eventually come and go. Is this a bad thing? Probably not. See we don’t know the reasons why someone comes to our life when at the end who has to go. Maybe because like the sayings “it’s the rule of universe” but I believe this is supposed to happen that way. They were meant to be in your life for that moment or time, not everybody is a complete book in your life, sometimes people are pages, sometime people are chapters and sometime they are just a sentence in your life, but without that one sentence is in your life the book will not be completed. If that one sentence in harry potter was missing then book will not be completed. So somebody come into your life may betray you, they may even broke your heart, even when you know that your crush is with someone else this valentine and you will sit back at home and watch YouTube instead. But that’s all part of the destiny.

So the point is when someone comes into your life they might teach you about yourself which you never knew before or love, or about life or maybe something else which will help you in future. So we can’t expect everyone to be with us throughout the life, because this is not going to happen. Like on seashore all the water which comes out of sea has to go back.  But you left with memories which you have created with each other and new lessons you have lean from them.

So who so ever did badly for me or betray me, I never had negative thought for those people because all those people I know from childhood made me learn so much about the life and helped me become who I am today. And also I am that person for others people life, who left others people life without ever noticing, the only difference is we have the reasons for why we did it, that’s why we validated to ourselves, so you have to look at people who left your life must have some reasons to leave your life too.

The Story That Moved This Entire Middle School To Tears

The Story That Moved This Entire Middle School to Tears
My special tribute to Mom - don't forget to call yours today! #HappyMothersDay Posted by Marc Mero on Sunday, May 10, 2015

Story became so popular last week on internet on the occasion of  Mother's Day which brings the truth and hard hitting fact of our today's life. While we all are busy in stupid things while our most important people in world are left alone - Our Parents
Perhaps You will call up your mom right now and say her “I Love You, Mom”! Mother- The greatest creation of Nature!

Motivational Words

Everybody is born with a gift

Everybody is born with the ability to develop that gift

Many people think we're born creative, but that's the farthest thing from the truth. I believe we all have the ability of built new things. A habit of creating something new every time can makes you more creative. One who is constantly working on his abilities develop the creative person inside them.  Which is why I say everybody is born with a gift. And each one of us has the ability to develop that gift. Understand your gift and working hard in shaping it into the real opportunities.

Opportunities never comes to anyone. We need to create opportunities. So believe in creating something out of nothing. There are always opportunities of make something out nothing. So example if you’re in worst situation you ever imaging and it’s all perceptions the way you look at it. You can see something negative or you can see something positive, now something that I have lean to do “Is to create that negative into positive thing by believing in myself and seen best out of every opportunity” this is the best exercise  for your creativity.  So there is nothing which we can’t do or we are unable to do. It’s all in your mind. Don’t listen to it just go for everything.

Do what you like. No boundaries.. Music, Art, Poetry – everything is creativity. We have created every single thing around us, situations, Jobs, our friends, people we have around us on a daily bases. It’s our choice, we created that. So effectively we become the creator of our REALITY and that the biggest truth of each of us life.

This means if I can control my reality I can create my life, my life situations. And you can be who you wanna be if you create and believe in yourself.

       

Amazingly Insta Diwali Pictures

Diwali is a festival of light, happiness, prosperity and life. It’s the biggest festival celebrated by Indians across the world. 

Just while looking into instagram I found some incredible talented people share such beautiful images of this Diwali. 

Have a look whats happening in India :- 

#slow-mo #apple #wonder #flowerpot #diwali

A video posted by Anirudh Goli (@anirudhgoli) on Oct 10, 2014 at 8:14am PDT

A video posted by Adhish Prakash (@adhishprakash) on Oct 10, 2014 at 8:52am PDT

A video posted by Muhammad Aasim Qamar (@qmaasim) on Oct 10, 2014 at 9:23am PDT

A video posted by sahil sindhu (@lolggnoobs) on Oct 10, 2014 at 9:23am PDT

And finally how india is look from satellite today !!

A photo posted by Priya😘 (@prettypriya1) on Oct 10, 2014 at 8:51am PDT